Discover the Freedom to Be You
Despite the inherited mindsets holding you bacK
Practical, actionable life strategies to help you move from surviving to thriving
so that you can start living the life you want and deserve.
my #1 National Best-Selling Book.
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A New Kind of Personal Development Book
Chad brings you along as he shares his own inspiring story. He delivers research-based strategies with compassion and relatability, to help you reveal and reprogram your own set of inherited beliefs. A life of personal freedom, purpose, and meaning is waiting for you once you make the decision to Break & Untangle.
Break & Untangle will guide you through the 12 mindset methods that WILL MAKE your life work betteR
SELF
STRATEGY
SOCIAL
Chapter 1
helps you gain clarity for your life's purpose, how you can begin to think about purpose in a new way, and how you can create a vision of your life that brings you a sense of meaning and satisfaction.
Page 73
outlines a guide for expanding the vocabulary of your internal dialogue so that what you say to yourself can support and not sabotage you.
Chapter 3
helps you identify your full potential. You are more than what you do or the role you play for other people.
Chapter 4
shows you how our mind, body, and spirit are connected. Far too many people ignore their spirit because of a bad experience with religion. This chapter will help you connect with your spirituality in a way that is authentic and comfortable.
Page 134
is an exercise that will help you recognize the steps necessary to become who you want to be and do what makes you feel most alive.
Chapter 6
is all about the relationship you have with money. It includes an exercise that will help you identify and resolve those persistent issues related to your financial health.
Page 176
offers you insight into which version of you is showing up in the world and how that version is influencing how you feel and interact with other people.
Page 223
gives you a step-by-step guide for crafting a mindfully productive routine so that you can go about your day being fully present without the guilt of not being "on tasks" or working the to-do list.
Chapter 9
clarifies that not all loneliness is the same and offers you strategies for feeling more connection and intimacy with others based on the type of loneliness you might be experiencing.
Chapter 10
addresses the resistance we have to ask for help and why asking for help can be reframed and seen as a sign of strength.
Page 289
gives you an exercise for finding more courage to advocate for yourself and the life you want. You'll also discover a sense of permission to live more freely as an authentic version of yourself.
Chapter 12
defines legacy as living each day consequentially. This new way of looking at legacy will help you find new ways of expressing and living into your meaning and purpose.
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Enhance the reading or listening experience of Break & Untangle
by getting these additional resources to help guide your journey:
- Guided Money Mindset Exercise (pg. 166)
- Best Year of Health Resources (pg. 119)
- Creating Your Routine (pg. 220)
- Meaningful Life Map (pg. 315)
- Personal Care Plan (pg. 118)
- Guided Mindset Meditations (pg. 201)
- List of Chad's Mentors (pg. 328)
Chad is one of the best people I have met! From his coaching style, to helping me live a life of freedom and purpose, Chad really cares about helping others! In his book, Break & Untangle, Chad weaves through a multitude of topics; from belonging, to mindset, to productivity. So take the stand today to break your own generational cycles and read this book. You’ll be glad you did!
– Bill D.
how this is different
and why you want this book
I get it. You’ve read all the books, been to all the seminars, joined all the programs.
So did I.
It turned out that years of being raised in a conservative, abusive, fundamentalist environment couldn’t be erased by a weekend seminar.
And here’s the deal – my book isn’t the magic bullet either. You and I both know that so there isn’t any reason for me to lie to you. In fact, that’s my promise to you – I will never lie to you. You’ve been lied to enough by the people who were supposed to love you no matter what. You’ve been lied to by so-called people of faith. You deserve better.
I won’t lie to you. But I will be direct with you. So if you’re looking for someone to blow smoke or stroke your ego, that isn’t me.
No amount of motivational memes or bullshit rah-rah is going to break the cycle of bigotry, ignorance, abuse or hate that’s been passed down through families for generations. What we need requires real work and commitment to do something different. Not just for us – but also for the people we love.
My story of doing that work is what I share with you in my book. I share my experiences; my mistakes, my victories, and my perspective.
When everything in my life changed...
Growing up wasn’t easy for me. I was a gay kid in rural Arkansas being raised by a physically and emotionally abusive father. My whole life was based on survival. I developed a lot of ways of coping with life that were based on that survival.
When I left home and got out of Arkansas, those survival techniques were no longer helpful. In fact, they were holding me back
When I discovered what I write about in Break & Untangle, everything in my life changed.
But I’m going to be honest with you…the depression didn’t completely go away. The anxiety still shows up sometimes. But what changed was the fact that I experience them differently.
I still get stuck sometimes, but I know how to navigate through the stuckness.
I still feel lonely sometimes – but I know how to recognize it and deal with it when it shows up now. And that little difference changed absolutely everything in my life.
I'll share my map of the journey
The first thing you’ll notice about my process is that I’m not selling you some magical destination where you’ll never struggle, and your life will be rainbows and kittens from now to eternity.
You won’t find any of that B.S. on any of the 394 pages of the book.
What you will find is a guide for the journey. An actual method for making your life work better.
A way to look at life.
A way to navigate life (on the good days and bad).
A way to discover or rediscover parts of yourself that got lost somewhere along your path.
You’re going to discover a new lens through which you’ll see your life.
You’ll gain perspective and clarity.
When you do the work, you’ll begin to experience your life differently.
Opportunities will show up. Life starts to make more sense. And relationships feel deeper and more meaningful.
Here's the BIG Secret...
In the book I write about the 3 selves that we all carry around with us; the younger, present, and future self.
The big secret is that oftentimes, we let the younger self drive our lives. We let that scared little kid that’s still in our head make the grown-up decisions of today. Trouble is, that scared little kid is still trying to survive. That little kid is making bad decisions that are meant to protect you – but are in fact holding you back from feeling more alive, having deeper relationships, and from feeling a sense of real meaning and purpose in your life.
Let’s do the work necessary to get your life working better.
Let’s do the hard and necessary work of protecting that younger self. Let’s give that younger self a sense of safety and security so that who you are today can thrive and live your life fully.
I’m honored to be a part of your journey.
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What's Waiting for you on the Other Side of Break & Untangle?
- Feel More Alive
- Get Back Your Sense of Imagination
- Deeper Relationships
- More Clarity
- Better Decision Making Ability
- ​A More Compassionate Definition of Productivity
- The Courage to be More of Yourself
- ​The Tools to Navigate Life's Ups and Downs