Feeling stuck and not sure how to break free?
Do you crave that feeling of more aliveness?
Want more meaningful connections with other people?
You’re not alone – and you’re in the right place.
FREE YOURSELF FROM THE INHERITED MINDSETS HOLDING YOU BACK
Break & Untangle?
AND WHY YOU WANT THIS BOOK
I get it. You’ve read all the books, been to all the seminars, joined all the programs.
So did I.
It turned out that years of being raised in a conservative, abusive, fundamentalist environment couldn’t be erased by a weekend seminar.
And here’s the deal – my book isn’t the magic bullet either. You and I both know that so there isn’t any reason for me to lie to you. In fact, that’s my promise to you – I will never lie to you. You’ve been lied to enough by the people who were supposed to love you no matter what. You’ve been lied to by so-called people of faith. You deserve better.
I won’t lie to you. But I will be direct with you. So if you’re looking for someone to blow smoke or stroke your ego, that isn’t me.
No amount of motivational memes or bullshit rah-rah is going to break the cycle of bigotry, ignorance, abuse or hate that’s been passed down through families for generations. What we need requires real work and commitment to do something different. Not just for us – but also for the people we love.
My story of doing that work is what I share with you in my book. I share my experiences; my mistakes, my victories, and my perspective.
Growing up wasn’t easy for me. I was a gay kid in rural Arkansas being raised by a physically and emotionally abusive father. My whole life was based on survival. I developed a lot of ways of coping with life that were based on that survival.
When I left home and got out of Arkansas, those survival techniques were no longer helpful. In fact, they were holding me back.
When I discovered what I write about in Break & Untangle, everything in my life changed.
But I’m going to be honest with you…the depression didn’t completely go away. The anxiety still shows up sometimes. But what changed was the fact that I experience them differently.
I still get stuck sometimes, but I know how to navigate through the stuckness.
I still feel lonely sometimes – but I know how to recognize it and deal with it when it shows up now. And that little difference changed absolutely everything in my life.
The first thing you’ll notice about my process is that I’m not selling you some magical destination where you’ll never struggle, and your life will be rainbows and kittens from now to eternity.
You won’t find any of that B.S. on any of the 394 pages of the book.
What you will find is a guide for the journey. An actual method for making your life work better.
A way to look at life.
A way to navigate life (on the good days and bad).
A way to discover or rediscover parts of yourself that got lost somewhere along your path.
You’re going to discover a new lens through which you’ll see your life.
You’ll gain perspective and clarity.
When you do the work, you’ll begin to experience your life differently.
Opportunities will show up. Life starts to make more sense. And relationships feel deeper and more meaningful.
In the book I write about the 3 selves that we all carry around with us; the younger, present, and future self.
The big secret is that oftentimes, we let the younger self drive our lives. We let that scared little kid that’s still in our head make the grown-up decisions of today.
Trouble is, that scared little kid is still trying to survive. That little kid is making bad decisions that are meant to protect you – but are in fact holding you back from feeling more alive, having deeper relationships, and from feeling a sense of real meaning and purpose in your life.
Let’s do the work necessary to get your life working better.
Let’s do the hard and necessary work of protecting that younger self. Let’s give that younger self a sense of safety and security so that who you are today can thrive and live your life fully.
I’m honored to be a part of your journey.
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